The Parent Playbook: Get Fitter on a Family Schedule

Updated November 24th 2025

This is our guide to fitness for busy parents—small, repeatable wins you can fit between school runs and bedtime.

Hey there busy Brighton parents. I run Green Gym Group and I’m also a parent of three young kids. I know exactly how “I’ll train later” turns into “where did that week go?”. This guide is the plan I wish I’d had when our house first turned into a Lego jungle.

Bottom line: you don’t need perfect routines or 90-minute sessions. You need small, repeatable wins that fit around school runs, nap windows, and bedtime battles.


What actually moves the needle (data, not drama)

  • Activity target: Adults benefit from 150+ minutes/week of moderate activity or 75 minutes vigorous, plus 2+ days of strength. Short bouts count; you can stack 10–20 minute pieces.

  • Strength for parents: 2 full-body sessions/week meaningfully improve strength, muscle, joint health, and “pick-up-the-kid” capacity.

  • Sleep triage: Adults do best with 7–9 hours. One rough night isn’t fatal, but multiple <6-hour nights raise hunger and cut training power—so we’ll adjust on those weeks.

  • Protein & fibre: Aim for 1.2–1.6 g protein/kg/day (higher if you’re 50+) and 25–35 g fibre/day to support recovery, appetite, and energy.

(These numbers come from UK/International public-health and sports-science guidance. We keep it boring-on-purpose because boring works.)


Fitness for Busy Parents: The 20-Minute Plan

Example week Format: 20–30 minutes, 1–3 reps in reserve (RIR), rest ~60–90s on accessories and 2 minutes on big lifts. Two dumbbells or a kettlebell is plenty.

Monday

  • Squat (goblet, DB, or bodyweight) — 3×8–12

  • Push (DB bench or push-ups on a bench) — 3×8–12

  • Row (DB row or band row) — 3×8–12

  • Option: 5-minute stroller walk/stepper finisher

Wednesday

  • Hip hinge (RDL or KB deadlift) — 3×8–12

  • Overhead press — 3×6–10

  • Split squat or reverse lunge — 2–3×8–12/leg

  • Core: dead bug or side plank — 2×30–45s

Friday

  • Leg press or cyclical (bike/treadmill) 10×1-minute easy/brisk

  • Lateral raise or band pull-aparts — 3×12–15

  • Triceps pressdown or dips on bench — 2–3×10–15

  • Carry (farmer’s) — 2–3×20–30m around the kitchen/playroom

Progression: Add a rep each set until the top of the range, then increase load slightly and repeat. If life happens, do one set of each—something beats nothing.


Fitness for Busy Parents: School-Run Stack (movement you can sneak in)

  • Drop-off loop: 10–15 min brisk walk after school drop-off.

  • Nap-time micro: 12-minute EMOM — 10 squats (min 1), 8 push-ups to bench (min 2), 20–30s plank (min 3) × 4 rounds.

  • Bath-time mobility: 5 minutes hips/shoulders while the kids play lifeguard.

  • Bedtime reset: 4-7-8 breathing (5 rounds) + “tomorrow’s bag” by the door.


Nutrition that survives family life

Parent Plate: ½ colour, ¼ protein, ¼ carbs, drizzle of fat.
Easy wins (no chef skills):

  • Greek yoghurt + berries + oats (breakfast or snack)

  • Eggs on toast + cherry tomatoes (5 minutes)

  • Microwavable rice + tinned beans + salsa + cheese (bowl dinner)

  • Wrap + rotisserie chicken + bagged salad

  • Protein shake + banana when you’re between pickups

Portion tip: If weight loss is a goal, aim for 0.25–0.5 kg per week. Keep a weekly average rather than obsessing over one day.


“Rough week” rules (sick kid, deadlines, zero sleep)

  1. Lower the bar, keep the habit: 10 minutes counts.

  2. Prioritise walks + one strength set: Squat/Row/Press once through.

  3. Protein first: hit 25–40 g at each meal any way you can (eggs, dairy, fish, tofu, beans, meat, protein snack).

  4. Lights out earlier: swap scrolling for sleep 3 nights this week.


Two-Week Starter Plan (print me)

Week 1

  • Mon: Day A (20–25 min)

  • Tue: 15-min walk after drop-off

  • Thu: Day B (20–25 min)

  • Sat/Sun: Family walk/scoot 30–40 min

Week 2

  • Mon: Day C (20 min)

  • Wed: 12-minute EMOM at home

  • Fri: Day A (20–25 min)

  • Weekend: Park circuits (parents trade sets while kids play)

Tick boxes on the fridge. Miss a day? Slide it forward—don’t start over.

Bookmark this fitness for busy parents plan and repeat it three times a week.


Frequently asked (parent edition)

“Can I break workouts into chunks?”
Yes—two 10-minute blocks behave like one 20-minute session for most goals.

“What about postpartum?”
Clear it with your doctor, rebuild gradually (breath, core, pelvic-floor-friendly moves), then add small loads. We can help you by giving you a postpartum workout plan to get you where you want to be. Be kind to yourself and remember, one step at a time. You’ve got this.

“I’m always tired. Should I skip?”
If you are feverish or injured, rest. If you’re just flat, do 10 minutes. Most parents feel better after the warm-up.


Ready when you are

Ready to try fitness for busy parents with friendly coaching?

  • Friendly intro chat (10–15 min): we can help get you started, just let us know where you want to begin. Book here

  • Free trial: come see the space, meet the team, bring questions.

  • Small-group coaching: Our PT’s can offer technique, progression, and accountability—built for busy parents.